“As we enter a season of loving, healing, forgiving…a season of promise…so many of us will look to the heavens for that star. I think, sometimes, that star is in our hearts as well.”
He talked a little about the wise men, the kings, and the shepherds who left their flocks. They were driven. They had a task, a goal. As men, they were so different, the simple shepherds, the kings, but it’s not only rich men who are driven or poor men who follow a calling. They simply responded to a gut reaction, to a mission that had to be fulfilled for their good, for the savior they were compelled to welcome to the world, for the well-being of all. It must have been a driving force, impossible to ignore, though to those around them, it might have seemed foolish. Or even crazy. Imagine these kings packing up and traipsing across the country on some harebrained idea that there was a special infant—coming to save the world, to heal mankind—born in a stable far away. Their servants and soldiers must have thought they had lost it.
Then came the star—guiding them. Leading them.
“Is there something,” the pastor asked his congregation, “we feel compelled to do in this season of giving, this season of rebirth? Do people around us suggest we mind our own business or let matters rest?”
His words began to run together and Marcie wasn’t sure how much of what she heard was the minister’s sermon, and how much her own mind, her own heart. Is there something you are inexplicably driven to complete and you can no more stop yourself than you can turn back time? Is this a mission of mercy, meant for goodness and healing? For love and kindness? Because you have to ask yourself that. This is not a season to heal your own wounds at the expense of another—but a time for rekindling love and moving ahead into a better world. Isn’t that what the birth of Christ promised? A better world?
Then we have to ask ourselves—do I see the way? Do I see—do I feel the star in the east? Am I being led?
Marcie felt tears on her cheeks and clearly heard the pastor say, “Let’s all say a little prayer that gives God permission to guide us in the right direction, in doing good, mending hurts, healing hearts, asking for forgiveness. And then we’ll sing.”
But she was already praying, and not to God as she was supposed to be. Her prayer went out to someone else.
Oh, Bobby, help! Am I meant to be here? To do this? Because he’s everything you said he was—he’s strong and invincible, and yet so tender, so sweet. So complicated, so simple. Sometimes I think of irrational things—Jesus whipping the money changers in the temple in fierceness, in battle, and then feeding the hungry masses from five loaves and five fish… If you could have seen him roar at me like I was the biggest threat, then feed that big buck right from his hand…I swear, the day the mountain lion came to the property, he shot over the cat so as not to harm it, though he could have killed it and maybe should have. He’s good, Bobby, and he just can’t do something like that without really…Oh, Bobby, if it’s wrong for me to invade his world, disrupt his life and make him unhappy, please give me a sign. It’s true, I want to bring him home, but I need him to bring me home! I swear to God, I only want to do the right thing, to feel that things are finally settled so we can all go on to the kind of lives you would have wanted for us. Please, Bobby, tell me! I’ll pay attention…
And while her head was bowed, beseeching her dead husband instead of God, as she’d been instructed, the congregation stood and belted out a hymn. It took her a moment to wipe her eyes and think, I’m crazy as a loon. Praying to a man who’s been dead for a year, who was lost to me years before that. Do I really think Bobby’s going to give me an answer faster than God? What kind of nutjob am I?
She surreptitiously stole a look across the aisle at Ian. He stood straight and tall, all bushy and proud. And he wasn’t singing! Of all the crazy things. This was one place his voice could not only be exercised but appreciated, yet he didn’t sing. What a horrible waste. She was filled with a longing to hear him amaze the rest of this congregation with his glorious voice. Yet he was silent.
She sniffed back her tears. Maybe he wasn’t all that wonderful. Maybe he was just plain selfish.
She had no idea why this whole episode—so spiritually emotional for her—would make her angry. And she didn’t brood over it; she just told herself to get over it and go along as she’d promised. At least until she figured things out.
When the hymn was finished, the benediction read and the pastor led the recessional, she was one of the first out of the church. She shook the pastor’s hand and thanked him for a moving sermon.