I am incredibly fortunate to have so many writer friends who have celebrated, vented, commiserated, and especially, laughed with me. Akilah Brown, you always know just how to help. Amy Spalding and Kayla Cagan—knowing you two is a constant joy. I hope we have many more retreats together. Nicole Chung, your friendship has gotten me through so much. Jami Attenberg, Melissa Baumgart, Robin Benway, Alexis Coe, Rachel Fershleiser, Ruby Lang, Jessica Morgan, Helen Rosner, Emma Straub, Sara Zarr: thank you all for your advice, guidance, and love.
Writing books—and being a person—during a pandemic has been so very hard. Kimberly Chin, thank you for being there every step of the way; these past two years would have been immeasurably harder without you. Simi Patnaik and Nicole Clouse, I can’t wait to toast you both with some excellent champagne. Janet Goode, I treasure our friendship so much. Jill Vizas, I can’t imagine my life without you. Thank you to Julian Davis Mortenson and Nathan Cortez; they know why. Sara Simon, I am so lucky to know you. Nanita Cranford, Nicole Cliffe, Alyssa Furukawa, Alicia Harris, Danny Lavery, Kate Leos, Lisa McIntire, Maret Orliss, Samantha Powell, Jessica Simmons, Melissa Sladden, Christina Tucker, Dana White, and Margaret H. Willison, I love you all so much and am so grateful for all of you.
My family has always been there for me and has always been proud of me, and I’m so lucky to have them all. Mom, thank you for your love and friendship, and especially for teaching me so much about wine! Dad, thank you for your strength, your love, and for always believing in me. To my sister, my cousins, my aunts and uncles, and everyone else in my family, you have all made me who I am.
Adriene Mishler, I’ve never met you, but I’ve done yoga with you for years now, and you’ve improved my life immensely. Thank you for everything.
Librarians and booksellers, I would be nowhere without you. I get excited every single time I see one of my books in a library or a bookstore, two places I’ve spent so much time in throughout my life. Thank you so much for your enthusiastic support of me and my books. It means the world to me.
And thank you to everyone who has read this book, or any of my others. Writing can often be lonely work, and it’s been especially lonely over the past few years. The notes and comments and love from all of you readers have buoyed me during the hardest times, and I cannot thank you enough. Thank you all, for everything.