I waited as long as I could. I know the bar opens at five, which means Ledger will likely be taking Diem home before then, and I really don’t want Ledger to be there when I arrive, so I timed my cab ride to get me there at five fifteen.
I didn’t want to arrive later than that because I don’t want to show up when they’re having dinner, or after she’s gone to bed. I want to do everything right. I don’t want to do anything that will make Patrick or Grace feel more threatened by my presence than they probably already will be.
I don’t want them to ask me to leave before I can even plead my case.
In a perfect world, they’ll open their front door for me and allow me to reunite with the daughter I’ve never held.
In a perfect world . . . their son would still be alive.
I wonder what I’ll see in their eyes when they find me at their front door. Will it be shock? Hatred?
How much does Grace despise me?
I try to put myself in Grace’s shoes sometimes.
I try to imagine the hatred she holds for me—what it must feel like from her perspective. Sometimes I lie in bed and close my eyes and try to justify all the reasons this woman is keeping me from knowing my daughter so that I don’t hate her back.
I think, Kenna—imagine you’re Grace.
Imagine you have a son.
A beautiful young man that you love more than life, more than any afterlife. And he’s handsome, and he’s accomplished. But most importantly, he’s kind. Everyone tells you this. Other parents wish their children could be more like your son. You smile because you’re proud of him.
You’re so proud of him, even when he brings home his new girlfriend, the one you heard moaning too loud in the middle of the night. The girlfriend you saw looking around the room while everyone else was praying over dinner. The girlfriend you caught smoking at eleven at night on your back patio, but you didn’t say anything; you just hoped your perfect son would outgrow her soon.
Imagine you get a phone call from your son’s roommate, asking if you know where he is. He was supposed to show up for work early that day, but for whatever reason he didn’t show.
Imagine your worry, because your son shows. He always shows.
Imagine he doesn’t answer his cell phone when you call to see why he didn’t show.
Imagine you start to panic as the hours stretch on. Normally, you can feel him, but you can’t feel him today; you feel full of fear and empty of pride.
Imagine you start to make phone calls. You call his college, you call his employer, you’d even call the girlfriend you don’t much care for, if only you knew her number.
Imagine you hear a car door slam, and you breathe a sigh of relief, only to fall to the floor when you see the police at your door.
Imagine hearing things like “I’m sorry,” and “accident,” and “car wreck,” and “didn’t make it.”
Imagine yourself not dying in that moment.
Imagine being forced to go on, to live through that awful night, to wake up the next day, to be asked to identify his body.
His lifeless body.
A body you created, breathed life into, grew inside of you, taught to walk and talk and run and be kind to others.
Imagine touching his cold, cold face, your tears falling onto the plastic bag he’s tucked into, your scream stuck in your throat, silent like the screams you’ve had in nightmares.
And yet you still live. Somehow.
Somehow you go on without the life you made. You grieve. You’re too weak to even plan his funeral. You keep wondering why your perfect son, your kind son, would be so reckless.
You are so devastated, but your heart keeps beating, over and over, reminding you of all the heartbeats your son will never feel.
Imagine it gets even worse.
Imagine that.
Imagine when you think you’re at rock bottom, you’re introduced to a whole new cliff you get to fall off when you’re told your son wasn’t even driving the car that was going way too fast on the gravel.
Imagine being told the wreck was her fault. The girl who smoked the cigarette and didn’t close her eyes during dinner prayer and moaned too loud in your quiet house.
Imagine being told she was careless and so unkind with the life you grew.
Imagine being told she left him there. “Fled,” they said.
Imagine being told they found her the next day, in her bed, hungover, covered in mud and gravel and your kind son’s blood.
Imagine being told your perfect son had a perfect pulse and might have lived a perfect life if only he could have had that wreck with a perfect girl.