Please don’t take forever.
Naturally, this train of thought leads me to remember that line everyone’s mom tells them at some time during their youth: If you keep making that face, you’ll look like that forever. Ladies and gentlemen, if I’m going to be stuck with this sucking face for the rest of my life, you might as well kill me now.
He finally finishes, and I sit back, rubbing at the blower’s wrinkles around my mouth. They’re set deep into my skin, and I know from experience that it’ll take several minutes for them to go away. My mouth is full, and I force myself to swallow, even though it makes me shudder. When we first started dating, Julian told me that it hurt his feelings when women didn’t swallow, that it made him feel rejected. As a result, I’ve probably swallowed gallons of his semen to safeguard his emotional well-being.
He kisses my temple—not my mouth. He refuses to kiss me on the mouth after I’ve gone down on him, and tonight I don’t mind. When he kissed me earlier, he tasted like a hamburger. Tucking himself back into his pants and zipping up, he flashes a smile at me, grabs the remote to turn the TV on, and rests against the headboard. He is the picture of relaxation and contentment.
I go to the bathroom and brush my teeth, making sure to thoroughly floss and use mouthwash. I don’t like the idea of having sperm stuck in between my teeth or wriggling on my tongue.
As I’m crawling back onto the bed to take up my regular spot next to him where I usually surf social media on my phone while he watches sitcoms, he pauses the TV and gives me a thoughtful look.
“I think we need to talk about the future,” he says. “About how we want to move forward.”
My heart jumps, and the fine hairs on my skin stand up. Is this … a proposal? Whatever excitement I feel at the prospect is outweighed by sheer terror. I’m not ready for marriage. I’m not ready for the changes that would bring. I’m barely handling the status quo.
“What do you mean?” I ask, making sure to keep my voice neutral so I don’t give away my ambivalence.
He reaches over and squeezes my hand affectionately. “You know how I feel about you, babe. We’re great together.”
I put on my best smile. “I think so, too.” My parents love him. His parents love me. We fit.
He caresses the back of my hand before sighting a bit of lint on my T-shirt, picking it off, and tossing it to the carpet. “I think you’re the one for me, the one I’m going to marry and have kids and a house with, all of that. But before we take that final step and settle down, I want to be sure.”
I don’t know where he’s going with this, but still, I smile and say, “Of course.”
“I think we should see other people for a while. Just to make sure we’ve ruled out other possibilities,” he says.
I blink several times as my brain struggles to shake off its shock. “Are we … breaking up?” Just saying those words makes my heart pound. I might not be ready for marriage, but I definitely don’t want our relationship to end. I’ve invested a lot of time and energy to make this work.
“No, we’re just putting our relationship on pause while we consider other options. We started dating exclusively when I was still in grad school, remember? Should you buy the first car you test-drive on the lot? Or should you test-drive a few more to make sure that first car is really as great as you think?”
I shake my head, quietly horrified that he’s comparing proposing to me with buying a new car from a dealership. I’m a person.
Julian sighs and reaches over to squeeze my leg. “I think we should really take some time apart, Anna. Not breaking up, just … seeing other people, too.”
“For how long? And what are the rules?” I ask, hoping that this will make sense if I learn more.
He focuses on the frozen image on the TV as he says, “A few months should be good, don’t you think? As for rules …” He shrugs and glances at me quickly. “Let’s just go with the flow and see where things go.”
“You’re going to have sex with other people?” An unpleasant feeling pools in my stomach at the thought.
“Aside from you, I’ve only been with one other person. If we’re going to get married, I want to do it without regrets. I don’t want to feel like I’m missing out. Doesn’t that make sense?” he asks.
“You’ll be okay if I sleep with someone else?” I ask, hurt and not even sure why. He makes it sound so reasonable.
He smirks slightly. “I don’t think you’ll sleep with someone else. I know you, Anna.”