Bmoney34: LOL. I’m here to help. I think Tube Sock fits you better, anyway.
WesTheBear: I’m not sure that would lessen the weird emails.
Bmoney34: It must be so hard to be a man online today. So much unwanted attention.
WesTheBear: You have no idea.
Bmoney34: Are you still at work?
WesTheBear: Home. Why?
Bmoney34: Just wondering if you were burning the midnight oil talking to clients.
WesTheBear: Just you.
I grinned at his comment, wandering into the kitchen.
Bmoney34: Good. I hate sharing.
WesTheBear: Kindergarten must have been rough for you.
Bmoney34: The absolute worst. If the FitMi plan involves sharing my box of crayons, you have your work cut out for you.
WesTheBear: I’ll only ask for temporary use of green.
Bmoney34: Hmm . . . regular green or one of the fancy ones?
WesTheBear: Fancy ones?
Bmoney34: Wes, what am I going to do with you? When I hit my next milestone, I’ll tell you about the fancy greens. A tit-for-tat thing.
WesTheBear: You paid for coaching with real money.
Bmoney34: Details.
WesTheBear: Speaking of, how’d the class go? Aside from the average age of your fellow dancers.
Bmoney34: I always love it! I measured my heart rate like you suggested, and it was pumping.
WesTheBear: What was it?
Bmoney34: 145. That’s good, right?
WesTheBear: Right in the target zone.
Bmoney34: So, can you help me figure out what in my fridge will make a good dinner? Is that part of the service?
WesTheBear: Show me what we’re working with.
Bmoney34: [Photo attached] Slim pickings. I haven’t had time to go grocery shopping. All this produce you have me eating goes bad fast. Your fridge probably looks like an aisle at Whole Foods, huh?
WesTheBear: [Photo attached]
I clapped my hand over my mouth and giggled. His open refrigerator contained beer and water, a few bottles of a blue power drink, several yogurt containers, and a jar of mustard.
Bmoney34: Should I trust you to give me nutrition advice? Where is your food?
WesTheBear: That mustard has some nutrients in it. The yogurt, too, before it expired.
Bmoney34: When did it expire?
WesTheBear: Let’s focus on you.
Wes sent me a link to the site’s nutrition section and cookbook. He told me they’d added some of his recipes to the “weeknight meals” section. I was pleasantly surprised to find an easy, tasty dish I could make using some frozen turkey meatballs. We chatted about food and cooking while I made dinner, and I took an artful photo of the finished product.
Bmoney34: [Photo attached] What do you think?
WesTheBear: Bon appétit raises a jar of mustard to you
Bmoney34: This is the weirdest Valentine’s Day dinner I’ve ever had.
Bmoney34: Not that this is a date or anything, of course.
He hadn’t responded, and I blew out a frustrated breath. I would be damned if Claire got to move ahead without me because I’d weirded out my coach. He thankfully ignored the comment, though.
WesTheBear: Any reason you didn’t upload a photo for your starting image? Lots of people like seeing their progress.
I’d told myself it was to protect my privacy, but it was more than that. I’d never liked seeing before-and-after photos, because looking more like the before than the after photo always made me feel like I had work to do, even when I was perfectly happy with my photo on its own. Claire and I had agreed to not do that for this project, not that I could explain that to Wes.
Bmoney34: I didn’t have a good photo.
WesTheBear: That seems like a poor excuse . . .
Bmoney34: Am I that transparent?
WesTheBear: I think you have a phone with a camera, is all. It’s okay—you don’t have to post. Some people like to see the changes as they go through the program—not that you’re doing it to change.
WesTheBear: I’m sure you’re beautiful just as you are.
Aside from my parents and my best friends, no adult had ever called me beautiful, not since my high school boyfriend, Calvin. I wasn’t sure how to respond, because my heart hammered.
Bmoney34: That’s a good line. You should take on a side hustle coaching for a dating site.
WesTheBear: My track record is better with fitness. New homework?
Bmoney34: Hit me, Tube Sock.
WesTheBear: Stock the fridge again, but this weekend, make a meal plan, and prep as much as possible ahead of time. Here are three links to a shopping guide, a list of easy make-ahead meals, and resources on meal planning in general.
Bmoney34: I can do that. Ready for your homework?
WesTheBear: Who’s the coach here?